
By: Lam Pin Foo
MS MONICA CHOON has battled against time for the
past 30 years to locate her Japanese
father in Japan through various means, but without
success.
The 52-year-old Singaporean and customer services
manager of a travel firm was a new-born baby when her
father, who worked as a civilian aircraft maintenance
technician at Kallang Airport, was sent back to Japan
after World War II ended in 1945.

Monica
Choon's parents, Tham Chee Fong
and Kenji Murai. They married in 1944 and
he was repatriated back to Japan
after the war ended
Her mother, Madam Tham Chee Fong, who died in 1981
at the age of 61, was a typical Cantonese woman who
was brought up in Chinatown here.
Her parents fell in love after meeting at Madam
Tham's cafe at the Happy World Amusement Park, which
was popular with Singaporeans and Japanese.
They married in 1944 despite apprehensions of
relatives and friends about the mixed marriage.
They lived with Madam Tham's family in Guillemard
Road, with many Malay neighbours.
Ms Choon was born a month before the war ended.
Her mother did not give her a Japanese name because
of high anti-Japanese
sentiments then.
Instead, she gave her the surname Choon, which was
the Cantonese transliteration of the name of her
father, who is Kenji Murai, from Hokkaido.
Murai, who will be 82 this year if he is still
alive, came to Singapore with the Occupation Forces
in 1942.
He failed to return home from work one day, after
the war ended. His wife looked for him without
success, and was finally told that he had been sent
to the camp and would be repatriated to Japan
shortly.
Her letters to Murai's home address in Hokkaido
were returned unopened.
She never heard from him again but was sure that
he was prevented from communicating with her by his
strict parents who were against his marrying a
foreigner.

Ms
Monica Choo...Dad was a gentleman,
devoted husband and doting father
Ms Choon did not know about her Japanese father
until when she was almost six years old, after being
taunted by neighbourhood Malay boys that she should
go back to Japan.
From the mid-'60s onwards, she tried
unsuccessfully to trace her father.
In desperation, she enlisted the help of her
former teacher at Maris Stella, Ms Teresa Teng (now
Mrs Panchini).
They went to the Japanese Embassy and were told
simply that, as there were many such cases, they were
unable to help.
In late '80s, her plight moved a Japanese airline
official who, after several personal inquiries in
Japan, verified that someone, with name and
antecedents corresponding to her father's, had died
in 1986, leaving three sons.
Although compelled to accept the fact that her
father might be dead, she still hopes that it was a
case of mistaken identity.
"I have never forgotten my promise to my
mother that I would do my utmost to find my father.
If I did find him, I will look after him as a filial
daughter should.
"My fervent hope is to meet my Japanese blood
relatives as they are now the only tangible link to
strengthen my Japanese roots.
"My father was a gentleman, devoted husband
and doting father. He was very handsome and had a
distinguished and benign air about him. His features
were not typically Japanese, and he was a
six-footer."
Her father was also kind, as he would give their
neighbours his government rations of rice, sugar and
cooking oil, which were much sought after at inflated
prices in the black market.
Ms Choon, who is married to Mr Jeffrey Low, a
senior executive based in Vietnam, has two daughters.
Her father's last-known address is Kusirosi Koto
Bokityo, Hokkaido. She can be reached on tel:
390-1873 or 765-9053, or pager 9580-0737.
First
published in The Straits Times, Feb 25, 1998
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